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Thursday, May 10, 2012

高安 (Gāo' ān) 我是否也在你心中 (wǒ shì fǒu yě zài nǐ xīn zhōng) - Am I in your heart?

Source Website:
http://www.hsyz.org.cn/gonghui/D_ReadNews.asp?NewsID=196 - (Picture)
http://www.yue365.com/getgeci/8427/228235.shtml - (Lyrics)
http://wenwen.soso.com/z/q127590015.htm - (Lyrics)

真的很想问一声：我是否也在你心中。如果在，明知我在等，为何没有回应？Really want to ask: If I am in your heart. If yes, knowing that I'm waiting, why do not respond?

PHOTO: 真的很想问一声：我是否也在你心中。如果在，明知我在等，为何没有回应？

Really want to ask: If I am in your heart. If yes, knowing that I'm waiting, why do not respond?
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歌曲(gē qǔ) Song：我是否也在你心中 (wǒ shì fǒu yě zài nǐ xīn zhōng) - Am I in your heart?
歌手(gē shǒu) Singer：高安 (Gāo' ān)
作曲(zuò qǔ) Composer：张锦华(Zhāng jǐn Huà)
作词(zuò cí) Lyrics：香烟有毒(xiāng yān yǒu dú) - Cigarette is poisonous?

高:默默的等 - Waiting in silence
Gāo: mò mò dí děng

等你在网络中 - Waiting for you among the path (network)
děng nǐ zài wǎng luò zhōng

等你的心 - Waiting for your heart
děng nǐ de xīn

每天把你梦 - Dream of you everyday
měi tiān bǎ nǐ mèng

囚:难舍这份情 - Difficult to abandon this love
qiú: nán shě zhè fèn qíng

难舍我的梦 - Difficult to abandon my dream
nán shě wǒ de mèng

越等越冷 - The more I wait the colder I become
yuè děng yuè lěng

越心痛 - the more distress (heartache)
yuè xīn tòng

高:无论风雨中 - Regardless of whatever trials and hardships
Gāo: wú lùn fēng yǔ zhōng

囚:无论网络多冰冷 - No matter how ice-cold the path is
qiú: wú lùn wǎng luò duō bīng lěng

合:我的心里早已把你深种 - My heart has for a long time consider you intimately
hé: wǒ de xīn li zǎo yǐ bǎ nǐ shēn zhǒng

高:我问问雨 - I ask the rain
Gāo: wǒ wèn wèn yǔ

囚:我问问风 - I ask the wind
qiú: wǒ wèn wèn fēng

合:我是否也在你梦中 - Whether I am also your dreams
hé: wǒ shì fǒu yě zài nǐ mèng zhōng

高:我问问雨 - I ask the rain
Gāo: wǒ wèn wèn yǔ

囚:我问问风 - I ask the wind
qiú: wǒ wèn wèn fēng

合:我是否也在你心中 - Whether I am also your heart
hé: wǒ shì fǒu yě zài nǐ xīn zhōng

PHOTO: 我却不敢把话问出口，因为我怕等待我的是失望与心酸。

I never dared to asked you, because I am afraid what is waiting is disappointment and sadness.

都说女人心海底针，阴晴不定，让人琢磨不透，其实那是你还不了解女人。

Woman's heart is like a needle at the bottom of the sea, volatile and mysterious. In fact, nobody can understand women.
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http://www.hsyz.org.cn/gonghui/uploadfile/jpg/2011-11/201111115517343.jpg
http://www.hsyz.org.cn/gonghui/D_ReadNews.asp?NewsID=196

高:默默的等
等你在网络中
等你的心
每天把你梦

囚:难舍这份情
难舍我的梦
越等越冷
越心痛

高:无论风雨中
囚:无论网络多冰冷
合:我的心里早已把你深种

高:我问问雨
囚:我问问风
合:我是否也在你梦中

高:我问问雨
囚:我问问风
合:我是否也在你心中

高:无论风雨中
囚:无论网络多冰冷
合:我的心里早已把你深种

高:我问问雨
囚:我问问风
合:我是否也在你梦中

高:我问问雨
囚:我问问风
合:我是否也在你心中

Translated by MDBG Chinese-English Dictionary and Google Translates
http://www.mdbg.net/chindict/chindict.php?page=worddict&wdrst=0&wdqb=%E6%88%91%E6%98%AF%E5%90%A6%E4%B9%9F%E5%9C%A8%E4%BD%A0%E5%BF%83%E4%B8%AD
　　

爱你还和从前一样，却只能在心中珍藏，念你还像以往，却再也看不到希望。Love you as before, but can only keep in the heart. Remember you just like the past, but no hope in sight.

PHOTO: 爱你还和从前一样，却只能在心中珍藏，念你还像以往，却再也看不到希望。

Love you as before, but can only keep in the heart. Remember you just like the past, but no hope in sight.
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http://www.hsyz.org.cn/gonghui/uploadfile/gif/2011-11/2011111155231348.gif
http://www.hsyz.org.cn/gonghui/D_ReadNews.asp?NewsID=196

PHOTO: 我是否也在你心中简谱 (jiǎn pǔ) - musical notation
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http://www.hsyz.org.cn/gonghui/uploadfile/png/2011-11/2011111155047980.png
http://www.hsyz.org.cn/gonghui/D_ReadNews.asp?NewsID=196

我是否也在你心中 (wǒ shì fǒu yě zài nǐ xīn zhōng)

From: http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=M8dBM4OAMQM

PHOTO: 如果可以，还想问一句：我是那个让你想携手一生的(女子)吗？

If possible, I would like to ask: Am I the person you would want to join hands forever?

http://hiphotos.baidu.com/%D6%D5%D3%DA%C8%E7%D4%B8/pic/item/29c917c33341256be4dd3b79.jpg
http://hi.baidu.com/%D6%D5%D3%DA%C8%E7%D4%B8/blog/item/381be1006440201b728da5e0.html

Reference

Monday, May 7, 2012

Sexting on the rise among Singapore teens？

Today on Sunday, Sunday, May 06, 2012, Page 2, SundaySpecial, Columns
From http://www.todayonline.com/PDFViewer/PDF/20120506/0605FFW002.pdf
Source Website: http://www.todayonline.com/Sunday/SundaySpecial/EDC120506-0000006/Sexting-on-the-rise-among-Singapore-teens?
By Teo Xuanwei, todayonsunday@mediacorp.com.sg, 04:45 AM May 06, 2012

PHOTO: “Some think ‘this will not happen to me’, or ‘I can always go back to my normal life after a few years if the pictures are leaked’. But teenagers need to realise it’s not as private as they think ... Once leaked, it isn’t something that can just be erased ... (Exposure) could lead to bigger issues, like depression, breakdown in family relationships or an inability to trust.”

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http://www.todayonline.com/Sunday/SundaySpecial/EDC120506-0000006/Sexting-on-the-rise-among-Singapore-teens?

Those who send nude pictures of themselves often don't think it's wrong or potentially harmful

Every other week, Annie (not her real name) would send her boyfriend, who is serving National Service, a couple of pictures of herself in the nude.

"When he asked for it initially, I thought, 'It could be fun, and it will keep him missing me', so I started doing it. It definitely builds up the excitement until he meets me on weekends," the 18-year-old undergraduate said. "I don't think it's a big deal because it's quite common. I've heard of several people doing it."

Indeed, of the 10 male and female teenagers aged between 14 and 19 Today spoke to, all said they think "sexting" is now commonplace among their peers - pointing to the rising prevalence of such a phenomenon here, apparently.

Said Colleen Ng, 16: "Some of my friends already post very 'daring' photos on their Facebook page or blog. I'm quite sure that they are sexting with their boyfriends, too."

Andrew Lim, 16, added: "Some of my friends have shown me such pictures on their phones but I'm not sure if the girls are their friends or girlfriends or not."

PHOTO: "Some of my friends already post very 'daring' photos on their Facebook page or blog. I'm quite sure that they are sexting with their boyfriends, too."

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http://nebulos.net/2011/02/13/media/favourites/california-on-sexting-24877

IS IT REALLY WIDESPREAD?

Some experts, however, believe sexting is not as widespread here as some may perceive. There has been no in-depth research of this issue locally. The anecdotal (based on casual observations) evidence is sometimes conflicting.

UniSIM Business School's head of communication programme Brian Lee, who has conducted various studies in youths' media behaviour over the past decade, said a survey he conducted among 420 polytechnic students a few months ago showed that less than 1 per cent of the respondents sent or received sexts.

But focus groups that he had conducted revealed that "almost all" the participants had heard that their friends had received or sent such messages, Dr Lee added.

Ms Iris Lin, a senior social worker with Fei Yue Family Service Centre, said they have not come across any youths who have sought help because of issues relating to sexting.

But she disagrees that the practice is not prevalent (commonly occurring) - the truth of the matter "depends on whether and how much the youths want to reveal" when asked, she said.

PHOTO: If you take a nude photo of yourself, and send it to another person, then that photo text becomes propery of the receiver. What they do with it is their choice, UNLESS, they try to make profit off your photo.

http://fitsnews.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/Sexting.jpg
http://www.fitsnews.com/2012/03/01/teen-sexting-ban-because-sc-has-no-real-problems-right/

OUT FOR INSTANT GRATIFICATION (sensual, satisfaction)

Whether or not sexting is catching on among teenagers here, the experts concur that the age of this vulnerable group alone is cause for greater scrutiny and safeguards.

"Some youths may think the physical aspects of a relationship are everything or worry that, if they turn down the request, they may be seen as not exciting, spontaneous or bold enough," said Ms Lin. "The possible consequences (of sexting) are in their heads, but it's not enough to stop them because they care only for instant gratification most of the time."

Mr Daniel Koh, a psychologist at Insights Mind Centre, added: "Some of them think: 'This will not happen to me', or 'I can always go back to my normal life after a few years if the pictures are leaked'. But teenagers need to realise that it's not as private or confidential as they think it is, even if they are sending to someone they feel they can trust. Once leaked, it isn't something that can just be erased."

He noted that accidental exposure of these intimate photos or videos could also go beyond the embarrassment and shame. "It could lead to bigger issues, like depression, breakdown in family relationships or an inability to trust," he said.

PHOTO: Teenagers need to realise that it's not as private or confidential as they think it is, even if they are sending to someone they feel they can trust. Once leaked, it isn't something that can just be erased." Asp is an old term used to describe a venomous snake.

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NEED FOR STRONGER LAWS

Zoe (not her real name), the only other teenager among those interviewed by Today who revealed she engages in sexting, said she recently realised the gravity of the situation should things go awry, after reading about a court case in March.

A young couple was charged in court for extorting money from a man after they scammed him into undressing in front of a webcam.

Said the 17-year-old: "I never felt anything in the past when I watched the leaked videos of celebrities or sex pictures of some local polytechnic girls. It was only after the case that I seriously thought of the possible scenarios - if my nude photos are leaked because my boyfriend loses his handphone, or if our relationship suddenly goes wrong."

Stronger laws - it is already an offence to possess, circulate or distribute obscene materials in Singapore - could be part of the solution, opines Dr Lee. Although it might be a stop-gap solution, it will "send a strong signal to youths", he said.

Besides educating young children on cyber wellness, Ms Lin said parents need to impart values to their kids.

She said: "It's about going beyond the knowledge that some things are wrong, but why it is wrong."

By Teo Xuanwei, todayonsunday@mediacorp.com.sg, 04:45 AM May 06, 2012

PHOTO: The most serious sexting case to date concerns Jessica Logan, 18, from Ohio. Using her mobile, she sent her then boyfriend a nude photograph of herself – but after they broke up he sent it to their friends. Logan was labelled a ‘slut’, ‘skank’ and a ‘whore’. She started skipping school to avoid her tormentors. Eventually, she hanged herself, leaving her phone in the centre of the room where she committed suicide.

Today on Sunday, Sunday, May 06, 2012, Page 3, SundaySpecial, Columns

I never felt anything in the past when I watched the leaked videos of celebrities or sex pictures of some local polytechnic girls. It was only after the case (a man scammed into undressing in front of a webcam) that I seriously thought of the possible scenarios - if my nude photos are leaked because my boyfriend loses his handphone, or if our relationship suddenly goes wrong.

PHOTO: Sexting: "I never felt anything in the past when I watched the leaked videos of celebrities or sex pictures of some local polytechnic girls. It was only after the case (a man scammed into undressing in front of a webcam) that I seriously thought of the possible scenarios - if my nude photos are leaked because my boyfriend loses his handphone, or if our relationship suddenly goes wrong."
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http://chatgr.deviantart.com/art/Sexting-295258395

Reference

Sunday, April 29, 2012

走着，走着，就老了 zǒu zhe, zǒu zhe, jiù lǎo liǎo - Walk, Walk, Old already

Source Website:
http://www.xinli110.com/NewPicArticle/rs/201101/201785.html
http://blog.dzwww.com/?uid-2406-action-viewspace-itemid-463650 - (Photo)

作者 zuò zhě (Author)：未知 wèi zhī (Unknown)
来源 lái yuán (Source)：整理 zhěng lǐ (Sorting out)
更新时间 gēng xīn shí jiān (Updated)：31st Jan 2011, 上午 shàng wǔ (Morning) 07:30:35

PHOTO: 走着，走着，就老了 zǒu zhe, zǒu zhe, jiù lǎo liǎo
Walk, Walk, Old already
Posted by zaozhuanghy on 5th Jan 2012, 17:01:31 (Text)
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走着，走着，就老了……生活就是这么无奈！

Walk, walk, old already ...... life is so helpless!

什么都不要去回顾，那种已在记忆之中的东西是最撩人心思摇曳，摇曳得令人心神默痛。

Do not review that has been in the memories. Such things are the most tantalizing with the promise of something unobtainable but causing silent pain.

走着，走着，就老了。是啊，容颜是最容易背叛人类的东西。不仅走的那样绝情，还要偷去你平稳的心态，让你时时刻刻都念起它：不能怪容颜，也不埋怨岁月，是我们接受了太多的上天馈赠，上帝顺便从我们身边带走样东西吧。其实，上帝是比人类还精明的一个生意人！

Walk, walk, old already. Our face is something that is most likely to betray the human being. Don't only go away unsympathetically, but also retain your sanity. Always remember: do not blame the old face or our age. We have accepted too many gifts from God, which is now taken away from us. Actually God makes better judgments than human beings!

PHOTO: 走着，走着，就老了。 zǒu zhe, zǒu zhe, jiù lǎo liǎo
Walk, walk, old already.
是啊，容颜是最容易背叛人类的东西。....
Our face is something that is most likely to betray the human being. .....
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http://blog.dzwww.com/?uid-2406-action-viewspace-itemid-463650

看看宝贝吧。整天盼望着他快点成长。在襁褓中时，盼望他会走路多好，等他走路稳当了；又盼望他会和自己交流，等他会和你争辩了；又盼望着他会独立多好！

Look at the baby. Everyday looking forward to him quickly grow up. In their infancy, we thought of how happy it will be if he could walk. When he is stable walking, we hope he could communicate with us. When he is able to argue with us, we look forward to him being independant!

等他独立，不再纠缠你了。这时，才猛然发现，身边太清静了，以往那个怕黑、调皮的宝贝不见了；然后看见了自己头上的发色如雪的颜面，白的苍白又荒凉；脸上的皮肤如逝水的水果，干瘪的趋向萎缩，那个健美、俊俏的人儿不知不觉地被岁月渡化了。

When he becomes independant and need not bother us, we suddenly discover that it is too quiet. The naughty baby who in the past used to be afraid of the dark, is gone; And then notice that the hairs on our head has turned snow white, pale and desolate. The skin of our face has shriveled, dried and deformed. The once fit and handsome person, is unknowingly converted by the process of aging.

PHOTO: 看看宝贝吧。.......
Look at the baby. ......
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月亮圆了、缺了；缺了、圆了；冬天去了、来了；来了、去了。来不及好好端详一下自己，时光便被每道皱纹占满，每块色斑沉淀，直到活脱为桑老的一棵树，才知道，叶落的时刻到了。

We watch umpteen times the moon being round, turn smaller and smaller, then round again. Winter came and go. Too late to properly scrutinize ourselves, time passes and patch of our freckles transforms, solidifies and become permanently embedded. Until we become the spitting image of the old mulberry tree, then we realise that it is time for the autum leaves to fall.

PHOTO: 月亮圆了、缺了；缺了、圆了；......

We watch umpteen times the moon being round, turn smaller and smaller, then round again .....

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到了叶落归根的时候，我们又善感的回想：无悔的、已错的，清晰可鉴，似举手可得；但没有办法重来。于是常常温习，一遍一遍地回味，自此对懊恼的事也多了莫名的亲切感。

While about to meet our destiny, we have those sentimental realisation: Unable to regret the wrongs but can treat it as a lesson learned. But there is no way back. With constant reviews and considerations, we come to term with those matters that used to upset us.

人就是个古怪的物种，反复叨念着的不是现在，而是已经过去的时光；能原谅的不是当前，而是曾伤怀的旧事。那种回想所带来的感觉是——心儿喜悦着憔悴，憔悴的只能安祥。

People are very strange species. We are repeatedly not concern of what is current, but those of the past. It is understandable that the current matters are not so popular, but why remember the sad past. That action can only make us feel haggard, prehaps serene at most.

PHOTO: 到了叶落归根的时候，我们又善感的回想：.....

While about to meet our destiny, we have those sentimental realisation: .....

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走着，走着，就老了。在离叶归之遥的长路上，尚年轻的，还需好好珍爱生活，把握好的时光是人生最美的一刻，一旦错过，回忆就是一片苦涩；彼此的感受才是重要的粘合。

Walk, walk, old already ...... While a long way away from the "falling leaf" stage of life, we were still young and needed to cherish life. To grasp the good times is the most beautiful moment in life. Once that is missed, it become a bitter memory. Understand and empathise each other feelings is important for bonding.

到了弃之可惜，留之无味的地步，人生又要多一波折。其人生之处最重要的仅仅几步而已，婚姻就是一个关口，话言“家和万事兴”，一个和美、幸福的家庭，不管是对己身还是下代都起着相当重要的作用。

Upon reaching a pitiful stage of uninteresting life, other problem will arise. Actually life only has few important milestones. Marriage is one of them. The phrase "An united family is a happy family" is a harmonise and happy family. Whether in their own or the next generation's, an united family plays an important role to the happiness of every member.

凡事不能太片面，也不可太怨深，人，谁没有缺点，谁又敢保自身就是完人，对人如待己……

Handling matters cannot be too one-sided or complain too much. Nobody is perfect. Who dare to proclaim being a perfect person without any drawbacks, treating others arrogantly with an air of overbearing superiority ......

PHOTO: 走着，走着，就老了。在离叶归之遥的长路上，......

Walk, walk, old already ...... While a long way away from the "falling leaf" stage of life, ......

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走着，走着，就老了。想想，人生只是瞬间即逝的一种生命过程，何必去苛求种种都完美呢？问题是什么样的结局才能称上完美？它有没有一个固定的标准来衡量？说不完美就是最大的完美。就像这人生，谁又有办法留住生命不归？

Walk, walk, old already ...... Thinking over, life is only a fleeting moment, why go to the extend of demanding everthing to be perfect? Is there fixed standards? Saying imperfect is the most perfect thing to say. Just like this current life, who is able to keep a life with no ending?